Want My Wife Back - I Blew It!

And you’re feeling bad about it now…….. “I want my wife back!” What exactly did you do? Was it something that you kept doing for a long time?

Well..you certainly had it coming, then. You screwed up and now you’re in a difficult situation. Are you planning on wallowing in self pity or going to do something about it? If you are really serious when you say, “I want my wife back,” then you better start climbing.

People who desperately say, “want my wife back” need to understand the most important word: HUMILITY. You better believe and be prepared for some begging and crawling if you are going to get her back. If you think you are too good, then there is no point in getting down on your knees. If she happens to be still upset or mad at you, you probably deserve it.

Accept your mistake

The first thing you need to do is accept that you messed up. Accept it from deep within. Don’t even try to make excuses and don’t cover it up. If she tells you that it has been horrible for her, you will have to agree with it. This is not the time to try and be defensive. You need to be completely honest about it. If you begin to lie at this point, you are only getting deeper into trouble. Another thing to remember is to never ever try to gloss over it by saying it wasn’t a big deal. If it cost you your marriage, then it was certainly a big deal.

You are going to be better

The second thing you will have to do is to let her know that you are going to improve and get better in whatever it is you messed up. If you have said it before and never did get better, then it will take a lot of convincing and making her believe that this time around, you mean it. It is going to take more than words to make her believe it. Make sure you take steps to actually stop doing it.

What was the problem anyway?

Alcohol or drugs?

If you have the problem of alcohol or drugs, it is not enough to have good intentions of wanting to stop. That is not going to help. You need to get help and work on it to ensure you don’t fall back upon those habits.

Anger?

If you have anger issues, then anger management classes are going to help. Start taking them right away.

Whatever your problem was, to be able to keep your promises to your wife, start taking corrective steps right away to ensure they are not repeated. If you really are serious and think, “want my wife back” then you will have to get serious at least now.

It is not going to be easy and you will find it a lot of work. You may even think that it is not possible for you to change and you are fine the way you are. If you happen to think that way, then you have to forget about trying to get your wife back.
Your pride may come in the way. Most men, in spite of being desperate about “want my wife back” tend to feel they are too good to do all the above things and that you are going to lose your dignity and pride to get wife back. Well, you can’t afford to let your pride in the way when you feel that you “want my wife back.”