Ways To Get Back With Ex Boyfriend

Your boyfriend and you split up and you realize you’ve been hasty. Many of these decisions are made in anger and haste.

Now you’re trying to find ways to get back with ex. You may have even tried pleading, begging promising to mend your ways and be a better person. You saw him talk to a girl and you tried to break that relationship too. However, what you’re forgetting is that, he can only see with his eyes and he cannot get into your mind. If you seem scheming or childish to him, nothing you say or do is going to be of any use.

First things first! Stop all the weird behavior you may have been displaying since you guys broke up. If your ex is not back with you, then obviously you’re not going about it the right way. If you’ve been following him around everywhere he goes; with his friends or on a date, you are most likely being seen as an unwanted stalker than a person who cares and loves him. For all you know, the very things that you are doing to get him back may be keeping him away. I bet you never looked at it that way!

Okay! Let’s see how you’re going to turn things in your favor…

The next time you come face-to-face with him, wherever it may be, make sure you acknowledge him. You are not going to go to him and demand attention, but you are vey lady-like going to say hello and go about your thing. You can also say that you’ll leave so that he feels more comfortable. Throughout it all, be polite and just leave. Even if he doesn’t come running behind you, your actions and your behavior will get him thinking.

When you want to get back with ex, you must do what isn’t expected of you. If you’ve been calling him a hundred times or even once a day – stop calling. Yes, you can call if you really need something but not to discuss your getting back together. If there is no reason for you to call, then don’t. Do that for a week, then call him once and say, "I've been thinking about you and just called to say." Ask him how he is and a few simple questions.

If your boyfriend sounds suspicious as to why you are calling and thinks you are being artificially nice, don't lose your temper. Convince him that you just called because you were missing him and wanted to hear his voice. Then end the call nicely. This is when he’ll start wondering why you didn’t plead with him as you usually do and he will start thinking what’s going on.

If you don’t feel like calling, you can always mail him a card saying, "Thinking of you!" It’s very important to allow him to make a move. If you want to know ways to get back with an ex boyfriend, the best way is to let him come after you.