Thursday, February 19, 2009

Ways To Get Back With Ex: The Magic Of Making Up


It is human nature is to crave for something we can’t have. This applies more for relationships.

Any relationship where the chemistry is not kept alive is nothing but a one way street to disaster. This keeps happening until the bubble burst with either one of the partners saying they can’t take it anymore and want to break-up. This is when realization dawns and the urgency is discovered by the spurned partner and then starts the race to get back with ex.

The problem here is that couples tend to get into a sort of comfort zone in a relationship and forget what is required of each of them. Many a time, it takes a jolt to wake them up – it takes being dumped to understand the value of what they’ve lost.

Better late than never. If you happened to be dumped, don’t despair, as there are ways to get back with ex – with the magic of making up.

If you haven’t already heard of this controversial book on how to get your ex back, the Magic of Making Up is written by T.W. Jackson, who provides a series of techniques that can be adoped by spurned lovers to get back with their ex.

One such controversial technique from the book involves the dumped person actually doing nothing other than agreeing that separation is the best thing in the circumstances. In fact, the author says to walk away after saying that we’re also thinking the same thing.

The fact is they’re not actually walking away. What they are in fact doing is positioning themselves in a higher place and turning this bad scenario in their favour.

This is what we were talking earlier – wanting what we can’t have. This affects both the partners in the relationship. The person dumbed is confronted with a situation where they stand to lose the person they love, but they cannot let that happen. By keeping their head high and by using the above mentioned tactic, this person is able to make the other person feel a sense of loss by declaring it’s best to separate.

Do you now understand where we are heading? In the given scenario, there are two reactions you can expect. One is that of anger from the other partner who “dumped” and their ego is hurt by your response or the dumper could suddenly gain immense respect for the person they dumped because they didn’t get the reaction they expected.

T.W. Jackson is different from the other so-called relationship experts and he certainly didn’t endear himself to them because of his unique techniques revealed in The Magic Of Making Up but the good news is that they aren’t the same old techniques taught by everyone else.

According to Jackson, he doesn’t have to worry about endearing himself to the majority as he has testimonials from people who have implemented his ways to get back with ex and succeeded. He says, people need to have the strength of their convictions to maintain the required composure all through and after being “executed.”

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