Wednesday, March 18, 2009

How To Get My Girlfriend Back? I Still Love Her!



This is exactly what men who ended the relationship from their side feel, when they realize they’ve made the wrong decision. I’m glad you’re asking this question, “how to get my girlfriend back?”

Now that you know this breakup was wrong and realize that what you had was the most beautiful thing of your life, it’s terrible for you.

Don’t fret, if what you had was wonderful for both of you, then your question, “how to get my girlfriend back,” has answers – several of them.
There are ways you can show her how much she means to you and how much you love your girlfriend.

Open communication channels

First thing to do is to try and open some sort of communication channels where you can talk to her just as a friend. You can make a call or even send her a message asking to talk to her. If she says “yes,” then you succeeded in taking the first step. If not, give her a few days and then try and meet her somewhere where you now she will be. Make it look like a coincidence and then ask her that all you want to do is talk to her as a friend. If she says she needs time, then you will just have to give it to her and wait.

Don’t show desperation

If you show desperation that will only get you on the wrong side of things and you certainly don’t want to go wrong. Learn to be patient. You are the one who let her go, now you have to do whatever it takes to get your girlfriend back, including waiting.

Stay away for a few days

If she asked you for time or didn’t show interest in talking to you, then stay away and don’t contact her for a few days. Wait and see if she gets in touch with you. Now that you’ve made your intentions clear, if she feels like you do, make no mistake, she will call or get in touch.

Don’t ask her to come back

Now, that sounds odd, but believe me, you have to take it slow. If she contacts you, don’t make the mistake of asking her to come back. Just talk to her generally and of course let her know that you are glad she called. Ask her welfare and sound caring, without sounding desperate.

Don’t proclaim your love

Don’t use the word “love” at all. Just be a friend to her and you will soon see the way she starts respecting you again and she will slowly gain trust in you.
The first step to your asking, “how to get my girlfriend back,” is to gain her trust and be a friend. Even if she talks nicely and closely, refrain from being hasty. This way you have a better chance of getting back together sooner. You will then learn to be patient and never ever have to ask “how to get my girlfriend back.”

Learn from your mistakes and lead a happy life with the person you love the most. Nothing is worth losing the most important thing in your life.

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