Monday, March 9, 2009

Win Back Your Ex - Win Back A Love Of A Lifetime



Wanting to win back a love is understandable. There are those beautiful moments in our lives that seem so perfect and filled with love, but unfortunately by some twist of fate, they get taken away. The follows the stage where you wonder and wonder, “what if…. .” The reason for you two going separate ways doesn’t matter, but you know in your heart that it was a mistake. There is a good chance that the love you lost could be going through the same feelings. They could be wondering how to win back a love of a lifetime as well.

Your kind of love is stuff great love stories are made of. Two love struck souls who crossed paths once upon a time, separated by circumstances beyond their control. Both remembering the beautiful moments that are etched in memory for life and regretting. Both longing and hoping that some miracle would happen to get them back together again.

If you happen to be at a point where you are still alone and no other relationship has worked, ever since you seperated from that special love of your life, then it could very well be that the one you dream of is meant to be with you and with you alone. Don’t waste any time. There is no point in reminiscing and feeling bad, get up and do something to get that love back. Even if you are not in touch and have no idea where they are, find them. Use every possible resource you have available to win back a love.

Once you locate them, this is the trickiest part. To win back a love, you will first need to find out the situation they are in. A good way to go about it would be to write a letter or send a message to them saying that you were looking at some old memorabilia and came across stuff that reminded you of them. This will send a signal that you are still thinking about them and they will get curious and would want to know what is going on.

Then you let them know how you are and a little about your situation. Whatever you do, don’t let them know that you are in the hunt. You need to make it seem like you are just mildly curious. If you find out that they are in a relationship with someone and are happy, you really don’t want to mess that up. It could be that the image in your mind of a perfect romance is just from your side. But you will still have to know about them first, to make that decision.

If you find that they are available and you are not infringing on anyone’s turn, then feel free to strike a friendship. Let the friendship go along naturally without forcing anything in a hurry. Even if you are desperate, don’t show that you are in a hurry.

Keep up the correspondence for a little while and instead of asking for their phone number (if you don’t have it), give them yours and say, “Feel free to call me anytime.” Doing this will take the pressure away from the whole situation and you know they would call you, if they want to. This way, you will know if they wish to talk to you.

Soon, if things are going as planned, you will see yourself moving from a friendship type relationship to a stronger type of bond before too long. With time, if it has to happen, seeing each other will come naturally.

Let me tell you, it is not going to take too much time for you to know if they are still in love with you. Be patient, it could take some time.

If it happens, congratulations! You have taken the best decision of your love and made it possible for yourself to win back your ex - win back a love of a lifetime.

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