Want To Get Back With Ex - How Can A Jerk Get Woman Back?

Hmmm…you do have an issue here. If you are calling yourself a jerk, you would have behaved badly with your wife or girl. Do you deserve her?

Okay, that is certainly not the sort of question you wish to hear; especially when you are looking for a solution to get woman back.

But the fact may very well be that you don’t deserve her. It is wonderful that you realize you may have had a problem but what are you going to do about it? Why should she want you back?

These are the things you got to figure out and believe me, you may not get woman back if you don’t sit down and look at these things.

Although, all these points may not apply to you, here is a list of few things you need to do to get woman back:

Respect women – Are you the type of person who things your woman is your property? That is such wrong thinking that you need to learn to respect women first. To be able to love women, you need to have a healthy respect for them first. Men who are loving, understanding and take care of their women are those that have high respect for women.

Treat women the right way – Who said chivalry is dead? You can be a perfect gentleman and treat women like queens. If you can learn to do this, you have better chances to get woman back. But just because you realized your mistakes and are making amends, don’t go overboard. Be subtle about it and don’t draw too much attention. Overdoing it will make it look like you are faking it. Believe me, women notice things. I am one, I know!:) Women are pretty smart at this stuff and if your woman doesn’t come close, she will have a friend notice things and let her know. You need to take care of your credibility here.

Humility is a virtue – I know you are wondering where this came from, but this is the new rule of the day. Humility can take you a long way towards helping you get woman back.

Admit to being a jerk - I don’t mean to upset you, but this has to be done. Don’t let your male ego come anywhere close to you. When you know you are wrong, you will have to admit it. Even if you don’t go personally and let her know specifically that you were a jerk; when she says you are – admit to having been one. Remember, her opinion matters a great deal if your goal is to get woman back. Think of yourself as a marketer and she is your customer. You are trying to sell and you have to convince her to buy. You would have heard that the customer is king (or queen in this case).

Find out if she needs space - Assess the situation clearly and get to know if she too want to come back to you immediately or if she wants some space before making her decision. To get to know this, you may have to talk to people who know her well. Even if you are desperate, don’t show it - have patience.

Convince her friends - It is a great idea to convince her friends that you have understood your mistake and you have changed. Her friends would naturally be skeptical of you because their main concern is their friend who is hurt by you. You will have to win her friends’ trust first and believe me this is more than half the battle won. If you try to get ex back first, you may not succeed in convincing her and even if you do, her friends may talk her out of it. Are you getting my point? This happens quite a lot as friends are a moral support system, especially when we need help. So, you will have to get her friends to believe in you again.

Show her you’ve changed - I told you to tell her friends first that you’ve changed and not her. But you can always “show” her that you’ve changed. Actions speak louder than words. You told her friends that you’ve changed and you’re showing her that you are a changed person. By doing this, you are making sure you are sending the right signals in every direction.

Make changes permanent - Please don’t ever make the mistake of trying to change just until you get woman back, you will have to change from deep inside. This happens only when you truly know that you are wrong. Spend time looking at yourself and genuinely work towards bringing about a change.

By changing yourself and doing the above will help you get woman back. Well! When you love someone, there are some sacrifices that both have to make and changing for the better is not a sacrifice, it is a way of becoming a better human being that leads to great relationships.